"Brienne kicking so much ass and having so much strength and discipline that you only wish you could ever be that badass except you can't even get off Tumblr and go to the gym."
This speaks to my soul (and abs).

Yep, in recent times the term is thrown around lightly and as somebody who is ridiculously paranoid about doing something wrong and badly when creating a story (and thus never finishing it apparently) I very much appreciate this clarification. :)