One, I am not passive-agressive. You are passive-agressive. I've just given up. If you have/had a problem with me, *you* could've spoken up and said it to *my* face. I'm just trying to ignore you and focus on schoolwork and friends that will hopefully not turn on me without an explanation.
Two, I didn't write this to contact you. I have no idea how often you read your LJ; I have no idea how often you *post* anymore. I wrote it because it was one of the things that was upsetting me.
Three, I really don't care *why* you stopped talking to me, I would just appreciate it if you would occasionally not be quite so insensitive to the fact that you *did*. It makes it slightly more difficult to tune you out. (BTW, congratulations on reaching some closure in your falling-out with Will. I really am happy for you, and I think it was good for you to actually deal with it. But that Will merited 'closure' and such an uncharacteristic display of forwardness, and I, who was sitting in the same room and would not have required tracking down all over campus, did not, was slightly insulting and did not make me eager to speak with you either.) And I don't particularly want to patch things up. I'm also not feeling isolated so much as feeling like I'm not succeeding in isolating myself as much as I'm trying to. I really do just want you to leave me alone. I don't care why you smile and say hello to me again, I'd just rather that you didn't.
I'm sorry if this response is unnecessarily brusque or hostile, but I found your response, while well-intended, rather presumptuous, and as you can probably tell, I am in an extremely nasty mood right now.
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branchandroot
Re: talk to me
Date: 2007-02-22 02:28 am (UTC)Two, I didn't write this to contact you. I have no idea how often you read your LJ; I have no idea how often you *post* anymore. I wrote it because it was one of the things that was upsetting me.
Three, I really don't care *why* you stopped talking to me, I would just appreciate it if you would occasionally not be quite so insensitive to the fact that you *did*. It makes it slightly more difficult to tune you out. (BTW, congratulations on reaching some closure in your falling-out with Will. I really am happy for you, and I think it was good for you to actually deal with it. But that Will merited 'closure' and such an uncharacteristic display of forwardness, and I, who was sitting in the same room and would not have required tracking down all over campus, did not, was slightly insulting and did not make me eager to speak with you either.) And I don't particularly want to patch things up. I'm also not feeling isolated so much as feeling like I'm not succeeding in isolating myself as much as I'm trying to. I really do just want you to leave me alone. I don't care why you smile and say hello to me again, I'd just rather that you didn't.
I'm sorry if this response is unnecessarily brusque or hostile, but I found your response, while well-intended, rather presumptuous, and as you can probably tell, I am in an extremely nasty mood right now.